Rapine
A relationship requires lots of sacrifice. Efforts, time and energy are the main elements that you have to gives out in order to make the relationship work. You decided to be with them and the process of learning about each other starts. It is tiring but worth it.
You have gave it all; every chunk of effort, time and energy has been used until refueling it does not make any significant at all; it kept on being drained out from you since you were trying so hard in order to make the relationship works.
There will be scrutiny, aghast, tears, mistakes and heartbreaks within the relationship but that what made it stronger. Do not bail, do not run away and do not keep your feeling to yourself. Your partner have the right to know because once you are in a relationship, there is no more alone time, alone moment or monologue.
If you decide that enough is enough, do inform and tell your partner about it. Meet with each other in the real world, eye to eye, face to face; not from text nor email. Give and tell them the reasons; tell them everything, nothing held back; so they would know. But if they question the reasons, answer it. Do not avoid it nor keep the answer to yourself knowing it will hurt them. It matters so they would realize and be a lesson to be better for their next.
Because if you do run away nor hiding the reasons, you are forcefully taking away their effort, time and energy while leaving them with nothing. Hence, they would be an empty husk, nothing but hollow with no soul.
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