Slow, Fast and Pace
Despite our journey in life, there will be definite paused; a halt, a pit stop. Merely, we often think these pit stop is for us to rest and regain our energy before continuing our journey; but does it so?
One might say when we are in a relationship, does our current partner are being consider as the pit stop or the finish line? The answer is partially within yourself as at the same time part of the inside is confide within them. Definitely the final answer to a question either they just pit stop or finish line would depends on their answer either it is parallel with yours or differentiate from your thoughts.
There is no end if they perceive us as a pit stop whenever they utter the words of “too young”, “need to achieve some life goals” or “I could not imagine how our future could be”. We might see them as our finish line; the one who we will text that we are heading home in the late evening, the one we want to do our cook for, the one we want to be at our side in bed, the one who we want to have a child with.
The intention to be someone’s last would be a mist imagination and thoughts of potential future for your partner gradually dissolves. If they could assure you that they are your future and together with it a time frame that has been promised to you for a marriage; they are definitely the catch. But a promise without a time frame, waiting will be an excruciating process.
When there is someone out there, who pursue you, cares about you and put out their time to spend on you; that is the person who will give you a time frame, the one who will make you their finish line and always be there for you; perhaps you could release that person from your grab but do not ever let them off from your sight as you do not know what the future will hold for the current.
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